A NEW LIFE
One morning I woke up with the following words in my mind: "I
can´t carry on anymore, God. Are you there? I want a new life."
STARTED TO MISUSE ALCOHOL AND TO PARTY
I came from a Christian home as both of my parents were believers and I had
grown up around the church all my life. When I turned 14 I decided to make
a personal commitment to Christ and during that summer I was baptized.
I was timid to show my faith in school and around my classmates but
nonetheless everything went fine and I didn’t run into any hassles until I
began vocational school. During this time I never confessed my faith in
Christ and in the process I wound up trying to fit in with my peers,
drinking and partying, up until graduation. After the graduation I repented and got
back to live for God again. We had a solid youth group in our church and everyone was into heavy
Christian rock. We were labelled the "heavy gang" due to our appearance.
In a sense we were pioneers and we got noticed. Even though a lot of older
believers looked down on us for our musical inclinations there were some
that understood where we were coming from. I fell in love with a girl from our "heavy gang" and we got married after
dating for a couple of years. Two years into marriage my wife decided to go
study in another area of the country and soon thereafter I moved too. Then out of
the blue to my complete and utter surprise, my wife informed me that she
wanted some space of her own and sought out a separation as on the side she
was having extra-marital affairs. She was hell-bent on doing her own thing
and so we were divorced, even though I would’ve wanted to work things out.
I drowned my sorrows in the mass amount of work that I had at the time and
during this time I was fortunate to have a few good friends who stuck by me
through it all. I had been practicing nature photography as a hobby and I
had invested a lot of money into this hobby. I was finally offered the
advertising photographer position at my workplace and so it became my bread
and butter, so to speak.
I SLEPT IN A SLEEPING BAG IN MY OFFICE
After few years however I found myself swamped with deadlines and workloads
which ultimately wore me out. There were times that I slept in a sleeping
bag on the floor of my office only to catch a couple of hours of shut-eye
before picking up where I had left off. I began hoping I’d get sick so I
could be afforded a period of rest from the grind of it all. I became so
desperate that I purposely tried to incapacitate myself on a few occasions
in order to justify a leave of absence. All of my hopes and attempts proved
futile however and I was left to face the same old, hopeless situation day
in and day out. Finally I began to suffer from poor memory and
overexhaustion and everything became a haze, which negatively affected my
job. After contacting a doctor I was written up for psychiatric care and 6
months sick leave in addition.
STARTED TO HAVE SUICIDE THOUGHTS
I became suicidally depressed during this time due to my situation and I
tried overdosing on my medication several times over this period without
success. After ingesting a stash of downers that I had been saving up one
of my friends rushed me to the emergency ward at the local hospital only to
have them flush my system of the drugs. I was consequently locked down in
the crisis ward of the hospital for 2 months until I made an escape
unbeknowst to others. I had determined to commit suicide that day and I
drove out to the countryside to carry out the deed. I duct taped the
windows of my car and led a hose into the closed compartment from the car’s
tailpipe which should have proved a sure-fire trick to put me away. I
floored the gas for a long time and to my dismay nothing happened, after
which I returned to the hospital a total wreck, having lost the will to
live.
After being released from the hospital I tried increasingly desperate
attempts at overdosing with various medications, figuring that it would be
the most painless way to go. During these times of attempted suicide I later
found out that my mother had been praying for me in earnest to regain my will
to live at those very moments along with her Christian sisters, my aunts.
I SURVIVED A CAR CRASH
After seeing my sister one night I tried to kill myself in a head-on
collision with a wall in which I totalled my car and miraculously survived
with only my head’s imprint in the shattered windshield to my credit.
Someone called an ambulance and I woke up with scars, bruises and damaged
knees but I still hadn’t managed to end up dead. That was the first time
that it occurred to me that there had to be a purpose to my life after all.
I had started dating the girl who drove me around while my knees
were mashed up from my collision. However, I was too depressed to invest in
the relationship and care. Nonetheless the doctors determined that getting
back in the job life would be good for me and so I ended up working in the
warehouse of the same company that I had been an advertising photographer
for. One night when my girlfriend was out I ground up 200 pills
of medication and dissolved them in some juice. I wrote a farewell note,
drank down the powdered juice and laid down for a bit. All I remember
before falling unconscious was a very scary black shape standing next to me.
STARTED PSYCHOTERAPEUTIC TREATMENT
I was in the hospital for a couple of weeks after which I decided to begin
psychotherapy. My girlfriend and I broke up and I ended up living by myself
once again. I met a couple of good Christian friends with whom I talked
about spiritual issues, having become disillusioned with my self-destructive
thoughts. One morning I woke up with the following words in my mind: "I
can´t carry on anymore, God. Are you there? I want a new life."
These were the lyrics from one of Finland´s top Christian metal music
artists Terapia and they painted a perfect picture of where I was at. As I
prayed it felt as though I was talking to the walls because I felt nothing
and it had been along time since I had communicated with God. I found the
will to live and seek out God however and during this time I was introduced
to The Christian Underground (TCU), an organization that catered to the rock
and roll crowd and those who had fallen by the wayside. I attended a TCU
summer retreat during which I met Päivi Niemi and Antti from Terapia along
with a host of others, some who became friends. An older missionary prayed
for me in English during the last meeting of the evening at that summer camp
and after that night I felt that the load which I had been carrying all of
that time had been lifted off of my shoulders.
I HAD BEEN SEARCHING FOR GOD
As I drove home the next day I marvelled at how I hadn’t felt so good in
ages. Everything around me seemed beautiful and clear. I had been
searching for God for about a year at that point and it was then that I felt
that I had found Him again. I had read the Scripture that said "Seek ye
first the Kingdom of God and thus all these things shall be added unto you". (Matthew 6:33)
I had done just that.
My two-year psychotherapy period was nearing its end and my therapist
received the news of me finding God very well. All of my old pain had
dissipated and I felt free. I had been staying in touch with Päivi Niemi
and we found that we had a lot in common and we got along well together.
When Päivi had her summer vacation I went to see her during which we fell in
love and started dating. This was the last drop of healing elixir that
cleansed the final remnants of the past from my soul and I was truly happy.
Päivi and I were married after which I bought a Christian record retail
business from a mutual friend, allowing me to quit my job at the time to
focus on my new business, which I was truly excited about, since I now
specialized in Christian heavy music which I knew a good deal about. So in
addition to finding God, I found a great wife, a good business and
everything else that I needed.
One night as my wife and I were discussing our past lives, Päivi mentioned
that a certain Scripture came to her mind. It was the same verse that the
missionary fellow who prayed for me at that TCU summer camp had mentioned as
he prayed over me in English that particular night,
"Forget the former things; do not dwell on the past. See, I am doing a new thing! Now it
springs up; do you not perceive it? I am making a way in the desert and
streams in the wasteland." (Isaiah 43:18-19)
That exact Scripture has come to fruition in my life. Everything is
possible with God.
Lasse Niskala